Peitho is a one-time assessment that reveals how your communication patterns interact with your partner's — and gives you the tools to do better.
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You just don't understand how your patterns interact.
The same arguments, over and over — and you can't figure out why
"We just don't communicate well" — but what does that even mean?
Therapy is £100+ per session — and who has the time?
Most relationship tools focus on you. But the magic isn't in knowing your "type" — it's in understanding what happens when two types interact.
"You think you're being supportive. They experience it as pressure.
Here's why — and here's what to do about it."
This is what couples therapists do. Peitho makes it accessible — without the cost, time, or stigma.
10-15 minutes each. One shared insight.
Send your partner a link. You each complete the assessment independently.
Answer questions about how you communicate, handle conflict, and show love.
See where your patterns align, clash, and create blind spots.
Get matched tools and frameworks for your specific dynamic.
See how you each handle conflict, express needs, and respond to stress — based on attachment theory and Gottman's research.
Discover the specific moments where your patterns clash — like the pursue-withdraw cycle that traps so many couples.
Uncover what you're not seeing about how your actions land with your partner — the gaps that fuel misunderstanding.
Get specific communication frameworks and exercises matched to your unique dynamic — not generic advice.
A diagnostic tool, not clinical treatment
One-time assessment, immediate value
Insights specific to your relationship
The average couple waits 6 years before seeking help. Don't wait until you're in crisis. Get clarity now.
Peitho's assessment draws from the most respected relationship science — translated into practical, actionable insights.
How your early experiences shape how you connect and respond to intimacy
40 years of research on what makes relationships succeed or fail
The balance between intimacy and maintaining your sense of self
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Peitho (PAY-tho) was the Greek goddess of persuasion and harmonious communication — invoked at marriages to help couples achieve their wants without quarrelling.